His mouth says to you, you know you're my boo. His words sound so good when he says, "She doesn't understand me the way you do that's why I love you so much, you get me."
At what cost are you being his boo? She doesn't understand him because maybe she calls him out on his stuff. You allow your feelings about what you see in him to go quiet because of your own need.
What is your cost for being the secret girl or the side chick? What part of yourself says it's ok to be hidden?
Baby Girl, he hides you because you allow him. He will tell you any negative you will listen to about her because he sees your insecurity and need for him.
Flag on the play!!!
Stop allowing men to hide you and make you feel like you are only worth having half a man just for the sake of having one. No one wants to be alone, but believe me it's better to be BY YOURSELF instead of waiting for someone to decide you are worth spending a few extra minutes with when they can slip away.
Those sneaky moments when he says all the right things, does all the right things, makes you feel like he really loves you for just a little while before returning to his life that he confidently displays in front of friends and family.
Flag on the Play!
Where is your Worth? Where is your self love? You deserve so much more. You shine bright like a diamond and a DIAMOND CAN'T BE HIDDEN. Find your worth and value. BE GOOD TO YOU.
Learn to love yourself.
When we learn to be good to SELF, we can recognize when others aren't being good to us.....When we learn to treat ourselves better, we can attract a better character of people into our lives.....SHINE BRIGHT BABY GIRL......
Originally Published 11/5/2016 Lynette M BradshawI help single Christian women restore their life after trauma by transformation of their emotions, mindset and self-awareness using faith-based principles.Best Selling Author | Speaker | Coach Visit The StorePlease leave your comments, Sign up for Blog Notifications, Share The Blog and Come back again